Dating is haram
Dating is haram
Many a fictitious love story has brought in thousands if not millions of sales… Dating. In young adult (YA) as well as adult romance novels. The same societies, however, frown upon and deem it illegal for single boys and girls under the age of 16 to engage in sexual activity, yet allow them to engage in parentally sanctioned dating.
the transgression of Allah’s commands), and therefore, eventually ending up being unhappy and lacking blessings in the long run. The lure of ‘romantic liaisons’ exists since time immemorial. extramarital affairs, living together before marriage, or dating someone from another race or social stratum. Dating in the Modern Day There is the kind of romance that society frowns upon and which elders forbid, depending on the prevalent culture, e.g. For example, in some countries, dating freely and living together publicly is allowed for single boys and girls beyond a certain ‘legal’ age viz. Then there is the romance and dating that is allowed by some societies, renditions of which vary according to cultures across the world. I remember receiving these messages as a child from my own parents and as I became a teenager, I had to explain to friends that I couldn’t go out on “dates.” Having a boyfriend was not even an option and even receiving a phone call from a boy to get a homework assignment was met with interrogations from my parents.
Like many of the youth today, I continued to abide by my parents rules and just held onto the dream that one day I would get married and everything would be perfect. The lure of ‘romantic liaisons’ exists since time immemorial. Engagement: Socially Accepted Dating The desire to go out on a date and be romantically involved with a person of the opposite gender is extremely high among young, hot-blooded singles anywhere in the world. Since young people often lack the wisdom and discretion that comes with life experience and the endurance of hardships, makes them the prime target of insinuations in order to entrap them in the snare of romantic liaisons as soon as possible, so that they commit actions that cause them pain, suffering, and regrets later on. Although both the above kinds of dating are forbidden in Islam, the latter is the most ‘socially accepted’ form of it that is rampant in most parts of the world.The married girl still lives with, and is financially supported by, her parents until the official wedding ceremony.Whilst this is a very effective way to allow young, in-love couples to enjoy each other’s company in a for him. Many a fictitious love story has brought in thousands if not millions of sales for content-producing companies that cash in on the incessant demand in humankind for fictitious tales that set their hearts aflutter.